boozey ridez

cant answer anything else tonight! sorry if i didnt get to urs i was doing everything in order and...

Tue, 21 May 2013 23:26:30 +1000

cant answer anything else tonight! sorry if i didnt get to urs i was doing everything in order and also being busy/distracted but i’ll stop in tomorrow, finish up and actually do some blogging MAYBE but i have a 11-hr day tomorrow so maybe not smh

love u all xo

i would tell you all the fab things going on w/ my life but there is n o t h i n g going on :( i hope things are going well with you and the new york guy :*

Tue, 21 May 2013 22:55:00 +1000

i highly doubt you have nothing going on shush ;)

me and NYboy are doing great, i’m currently multitasking by A) answering questions on tumblr, B) doing work, and C) sexting him stupid things about kissing and chocolate sauce

Ok so I went to a cabin a while back with three of my best guyfriends and we drank a lot and all I remember is that someone really grabbed my ass like sexually and I don't know who and it's a really awkward situation that I'm in what should I do omg. (I haven't told anyone bc I don't know if it's an issue??)

Tue, 21 May 2013 22:51:16 +1000

it’s an issue if you feel victimised by it, and are offended and concerned. because you’re still thinking about it i think it’s obvious this situation has made an impact on you, and of course i always say that any unwanted sexual contact is Not Cool

these guys are your self-described Best Guyfriends, right…. so i think they’d all respect you and value your honesty, like you theirs. Speak to them each individually and just explain that you were drunk and confused but this moment has been plaguing you and you just wanna know who it was to put your mind at ease. If one of them owns up, explain to him why that shit’s just not on even if it was a joke, because it made you uncomfortable. A mature friend would understand and apologise, trust me.

The guys may not be aware of how much this has affected you unless you let them know! in friendships, honesty is key.

Actually i just realised that your ask could be interpreted as not being bothered by it at all, and just wanting to know who touched ur butt. In that case, ignore everything i just said except the part about just asking them because it will solve your issue ;)

everyone is intimidated by ur coolness that's why they don't say things off anon

Tue, 21 May 2013 22:45:00 +1000

qurl no shhh this is not what i want ahhh i need to be approchable for my own personal validation

p.s. how are you etc long time no interaction (sorry!)

is everyone too scared to ask things non-anon? its okay babies shhhh come to me tell me what’s...

Tue, 21 May 2013 21:38:22 +1000

is everyone too scared to ask things non-anon? its okay babies shhhh come to me tell me what’s up with ur life, ask me something that’s on your mind, whats a cool book u read this week

how are you so cool im like intimidated by ur coolness htis isnt sarcastic this is a literal question candice pls

Tue, 21 May 2013 21:31:05 +1000

im not Cool i’m actually a Huge Idiot trust me anon

Be Yourself xo

what movie should i watch tonight instead of doing homework!

Tue, 21 May 2013 20:42:05 +1000

can i convince you to do ur homework anon

at least give it a go

but if you really give up after a bit more, ummmm, well the last two movies i watched were “Brazil!” and “Dark City” as a stoner double feature on the weekend so i recommend both because they are hella cool movies

can you explain to me how frank iero still looks so good even though he is nearing 32 years old

Tue, 21 May 2013 20:32:04 +1000

first up, early 30s isn’t old, i got friends who are like 31 and one of those friends actually stills gets asked for ID when buying cigarettes sometimes. a lot of people really don’t start looking “adult” until like 35 imo

also i think it’s because he’s surrounded by youth, he has 3 kiddies at home who probs keep him feeling young and that shines through. as far as we know he’s not a drug or alcohol abuser (though he dabbles in both) so that keeps one’s face fresh

also voodoo magic i suspect plays a part

Do you have any advice for dressing more stylishly or fashionable but on a budget? I donly have a part time job and I can't afford a lot of the clohes I want to wear..

Tue, 21 May 2013 20:22:06 +1000

okay i have mastered the art of Looking Expensive but not spending much money its like my best skill

basically you need to learn what suits you, not just ‘looks’ of clothes and cuts and colours, but what fits your personality. obviously this means items that make you happy and you feel comfortable wearing them. This will in turn make you more confident when you step out and confidence is key.

once you know what you like, do some research into how to make that classic. i mean like, timeless. basically the “fashion” of most of the general public is pretty trashy right now and people look like homeless rats, so you just need to dress with more care and wear clean, classic things to contrast these awful peasants.

you may not have much money week to week, but try putting aside $10 here and there to save for a quality item such as a pair of leather boots or a silk shirt, this way even if everything else you’re wearing has a combined total of $14.95, your one “investment” item will carry the rest of your look.

ensuring all your clothes FIT will ensure you look more stylish as well, trust me. experiment with different cuts/lengths of skirts and pants until you figure out what suits you and STICK WITH IT.

stay away from gaudy colours and ridiculous patterns. keep it simple. Simple is classic and stylish and you can wear basic items for longer.

Good wardrobe staples include but are not limited to: a large plain black bag (no stupid padlocks or shit hanging off it, just a black square bag. logos are trashy and cheap), a neat pair of shoes for all weather, black tailored pants or skinny jeans (at a waist height that fits your figure), a jacket or blazer that is fitted and somewhat heavy so it doesn’t crush and look yuck, cream/nude chemises, a plain scarf and glove set (for winter), plain wide-necked t-shirts, an LBD (if you wear dresses, and ‘little’ doesnt have to mean ‘short’; my LBDs are knee-length), and tights with no runs in them.

also never leave the house without grooming your eyebrows and ensuring your fingernails aren’t dirty (no polish is fine, just buffed and neat is cool) - these two things can make or break how expensive you look

Also have fun, clothes are awesome

shadesofshit: reminder to be kind to yourself today !!! it’s ok!!

Tue, 21 May 2013 20:08:34 +1000

shadesofshit:

reminder to be kind to yourself today !!! it’s ok!!

YOU ROCK CANDICE

Tue, 21 May 2013 20:03:00 +1000

YOU DO TOO I LOVE MUTAL ROCKING THATS GR8

recommend a song for me to download right now?

Tue, 21 May 2013 19:59:07 +1000

i just listened to Every Time I Die’s “Leatherneck” and that song is fucking boss so i recommend that

can i be your friend i always admire you from afar <3__<3

Tue, 21 May 2013 19:38:00 +1000

this answer goes for everyone, don’t be afraid to say hello! no need to admire from afar i’m really friendly i promise. we can all be friends here, nice to meet you Naomi :)

hi friends! because i’ve been missing heaps lately/being bad blogger, and i have a few hours...

Tue, 21 May 2013 19:22:36 +1000

hi friends!

because i’ve been missing heaps lately/being bad blogger, and i have a few hours spare, i think i’ll open my askbox for Q&As tonight; as you know i usually answer all asks privately unless they’re anon (duh) but for this session i’ll answer everything publicly unless you specify in the message u want it private

ask me anything, or tell me a story or something about yourself, as always anons are welcome :)

if i don’t reply straight away i’m sorry, i’m actually doing work lol

fire away

what was your first kiss like?

Tue, 21 May 2013 19:17:39 +1000

it was weird, it was with a boy called ‘Elias’ which is pretty weird on its own and then we were at school and we were “going out” or something, and we were holding hands at lunchtime and everybody was like KISS KISS KISS KISS DO IT KISS so i was like omg okay what and then he put his tongue in my mouth and it was so bizarre i had no idea what to do

then we got in trouble by a teacher or something lmao

hey candice im seeing fall out boy at the house of blues in vegas and im hoping to be the first one at the venue so like how early do u think i should get there? i was thinking about camping out but im not ssure if ill need to and im not 18 yet so i dont wanna get in trouble or s/t what do you think?

Tue, 21 May 2013 19:16:10 +1000

okay this is what happens when i go to shows:

i arrive a few minutes before the door opens/while the support act is starting, go inside, get a drink or whatever, band starts and i begin to dance/enjoy myself. then i think ‘oh alright i need to get closer now’ so i just work my way through the floor crowd, smiling and pointing at free ‘spots’ to jump into, until eventually you just get to the front because people are NICE and if you look like you’re having a good time people usually let you do stuff to enable having a good time. take turns with other fans at the barrier and dance with them etc

in my experience Fall Out Boy fans aren’t rude and if you don’t push and shove, you can just move your way around the venue with ease from back to front and side to middle and just enjoy the show

also if you’re not 18 and it’s an overage show, good luck with your fake ID or whatever ;)

candice i while ago i asked you about totally being into my best friend's brother and we went to the kooks and then i slept with him is that bad?

Tue, 21 May 2013 19:12:12 +1000

yes i remember this story, i encouraged you to just go with him and tell your mate woohooo i’m glad that you did!

is that bad? no fucking way! Sleeping with cool dudes who you think are cool and who also think you are cool too is AWESOME. it should never be “bad”. you might be feeling a little guilty or something due to some sort of societal pressure to Not Sleep With Your Friends’ Relatives/Your Relatives’ Friends Because When That Happens In The Movies Drama Happens And It’s Frowned Upon

fuck that. if anyone gets pissy over this, they must be some sort of archaic entity…. seriously if your bestie doesn’t already know, when she finds out, if she gets mad, you need to talk some modern sense into her head. you go anon!

Photo

Tue, 21 May 2013 09:42:03 +1000

sharticles: a lil bit of frnk part 2

Mon, 20 May 2013 16:43:33 +1000

sharticles:

a lil bit of frnk part 2

theroadoutsidemyhouse: woops i made it transparent (x)

Mon, 20 May 2013 16:21:46 +1000

theroadoutsidemyhouse:

woops i made it transparent (x)